Praise be to Allaah.
Allaah to help you and guide you, and to compensate you with something
better if you leave your job, and to bless you with a righteous husband who
will be a delight to you.
marriage contract is done with the consent of both parties and in the
presence of the woman’s wali (guardian) and two witnesses, then it is a
valid marriage, whether the consummation takes place immediately afterwards
or it is delayed for a long time or a short time.
Messenger (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) did the marriage
contract with ‘Aa’ishah when he was in Makkah, and he consummated the
marriage with her three years later. Narrated by al-Bukhaari (3894) and
It is better
for him to try and convince his parents of this marriage, because that will
be beneficial for him and for you and your children. He should try not to do
this marriage without the agreement of his family, so that it will not be a
cause of never-ending disputes and arguments or have a bad effect on your
It should be
noted that it is not permissible for you to form a relationship with this
young man, and that the fiancé is a stranger (non-mahram) to his fiancée
until the marriage contract is done.